Sometimes in life you find that things don't always turn out the way you had planned. Not exactly anyway. You can either look on it as a learning curve ... you can become despondent ... you can TRUST that its exactly how it should be ... you could give up ... you could find new hope out of the old . So many different avenues to choose from as to how one deals with a particular circumstance.
I am learning that how you deal with something, ...your attitude toward it ... is an easy access to finding out where you are within your personal evolvement. Or do I want to put 'involvement'? For is not your involvement connected to your attachment to something?
How are YOU recognising your evolving? When I look back as to how I may have behaved in the past over certain issues , I am thrilled to pat myself on the back when I see how far I have moved on from that place of self pity. It was simply self indulgence of wallowing in the 'what should have happened and didn't'. Now ... it's so much easier just to appreciate and accept where you are. Even if you would have preferred it to be different. The fact is ... it isn't. It is exactly as it is. No more , no less. How do you choose to 'feel' in that space and how will you deal with it? What attitude are you going to adopt to that something that isn't quite to your liking?
LET GO! Let go of whatever it is that is holding you back. It is SO liberating. Now and then we may 'need' to ponder on the what ifs , but as we grow we are all learning that staying in that space is of no service to the soul whatsoever. So we move on ... rapidly. And I LOVE THAT!!It makes life so much simpler.
Lets face it ... at the end of the day we are all just doing the best we can ... in the only way we know how ... and we can't ask for more than that. If we were perfect, we wouldn't be in this vibration, we couldn't be. So just by accepting this, and not beating ourselves up when things don't quite go according to plan, we can learn so much from OURSELVES.
We are our own teachers.If we follow the path that we know to be TRUTH then we cannot help but pick up flowers along the way. Flowers of different types and hues that we choose to collect ... we decipher which ones are to be kept and which to be discarded. Each flower represents another piece of knowledge that has returned to our memory, and as we manifest the bunch of our desire we smell the essence of our inner Truth, leading us onwards.
AS long as we KNOW that within our hearts we are doing our very best, as long as we KNOW that we are moving forward in Love then we can LET GO of all doubts and fears. And TRUST!
What kind of friends are you surrounded by? That's always a good sign is it not? I feel so blessed to be among those who are concerned only with kindness and Love for one another ... as I said to a very special friend of mine only yesterday ... the gin I thankfully no longer need ... but I will always need a tonic ... and she definitely is mine when I need it!
Let's all just keep on keeping on ... none of us know where it is all leading, but we can tell whether or not it feels mighty fine or distinctly rotten ... and the best thing of all is KNOWING that it is up to us to follow those feelings that make us feel good about ourselves because ... we are all just here, at this time, on this planet earth ... doing the best we can.
Hope every one is well . Busy doing my show at the mo ... and even White Cloud has taken a holiday it seems. Hope he's got his sunglasses cos I know it's exceedingly BRIGHT where he goes!!
and it is definitely effervescing with
Love Light laughter and Golden rays